Kissing in America

3 Jul

KISSING IN AMERICA by Margo Rabb (Amazon) (Goodreads) was so, so, SO much more than I had hoped or expected. It’s probably not even fair to say I had hopes — I don’t remember which list I saw it on or why I decided to request it from the library and even once I had it at home, I put it off because cover didn’t especially draw me in. Thinking back, the “I loved it” blurb from Elizabeth Gilbert was a bit of a “huh” and should have been a tip off that this was something really, really special. So if you didn’t already get the TLDR, the point is: it is EXCELLENT. Highly recommend.

As I’ve done with previous “reviews” (these are definitely not reviews, they’re more like stream-of-consciousness commentaries) of books, below are some of my favorite quotes from the book mashed up with my musings on why I liked this or that so much and how it made me feel.

  • I don’t generally like poetry but the lines and excerpts made me *feel* things, and tempt me to actually go read some. Each section includes a bit of poetry, and each chapter title *feels* like poetry, though most are phrases or prose from that actual chapter. I just can’t emphasize enough how much I am NOT a poetry person, but how by the middle of reading this novel, the poetry really started to affect me… particularly the snippets that Will and Eva started including in their letters to each other.
  • “[My mother] would’ve preferred odd piercings, full-body tattoos, or even shoplifting to what I did. I feel in love with romance novels” (4). HA. Skipping ahead a little bit, I love this explanation for why Eva likes romance novels (and I think it gets at part of why I love reading fiction/YA/contemporary so much too): “I loved romances because when you opened the first page, you knew the story would end well. Your heart wouldn’t be broken. I loved that security, that guaranteed love. Sure, a minor, usually unlikable character might drop dead from typhus or consumption or starve to death in the brig, but bad things were only temporary in these books. By the end, the hero and heroine would be ecstatically in love, enormously happy. / In real life, you never knew the ending. I hated that” (51-52). Me too Eva, me too. And then at the very end of the book (SPOILERS!) — this broke my heart: “It didn’t make sense. I thought: we’re not in a romance novel. The words fell into my head. In a romance novel, if a person said, Sometimes people meet at the wrong time on page 50, then they’d still get married by page 250. They’d still have their happy ending” (335). – Heartbreak.
  • “…sometimes I glance in the window and see them. Girls and their dads doing the tiniest most boring things like sharing chicken wings (and I don’t even like chicken wings), and I watch them through the window, wanting to soak up all this fatherness, this luxurious fatherness they don’t even appreciate. Usually they’re not even talking to their dads, they’re texting or playing a video game in their laps. Don’t they know? I want to shake them. Don’t they know how lucky they are to sit in the KFC with their fathers?” (20) That one shot straight to the heart… a reminder to be thankful, and one of many passages that really raised volumes of empathy and pain on behalf of Eva. And spoiler, but the ugly cries really started flowing during that last conversation between Eva and her mom: Eva: “‘We never talk about him.’ ‘Who?’ ‘Daddy.'” (373) – UGLY CRIES EVERYWHERE. And here’s another one: “My mom said ‘I love you’ every night… like an item on a to-do list. My dad used to say it with a soft voice and a kiss to the head, and I told my mom that once: ‘Daddy said I love you differently.’ She looked stricken. She told me she had a headache and she went to bed.” (25) While I felt for Eva, I actually also empathized a lot with her mom… who really sucked at dealing with her grief from her daughter’s perspective, but clearly also had a lot of issues and Margo (can I just call her Margo? the author) built her character with her a lot of layers and complexity, like a real person, to the point where I sympathized with her. Who am I to judge this woman for how the loss of the love of her life breaks and shatters her? Who’s to say I’d do any better?
  • On a lighter note: the nicknames that Annie and Eva and Will come up with for the stuff and adults in their life are hilarious — Jerkface for Will’s dad, Benign Fungus for Larry, even Crapphone for her not-smartphone cellphone… maybe to some it’s cheesy, but to me, it seems authenticly teenager.
  • I love Annie! I love that she’s quirky and a genius and most of all that she’s a REAL, steadfast friend… who is in some ways an Asian stereotype genius daughter, but also one who has to deal with the embarrassment of her family’s humble beginnings and her sisters NOT being the typical Asian AP kids. She’s also a SUPER straight talker–when Eva drafts a text message and hems and haws about the wording, Annie says: “Send it or I’m going to kill you” (69) – what a friend! And then even in the more serious times, the best friends are the ones that even when you mess up, they’ll be there. “I lay next to her on the bed. We were quiet for a long time as we stared at the ceiling, just as we had all over the country. There’s a thing in poetry called the caesura–a pause between words, a silence. I thought: That’s what real friendship is, too. Someone you can be quiet with. Someone who understands your mistakes and forgives you” (365).
  • I had no idea this would be a road trip story and I LOVEEEEE road trip stories! (Shout out to Morgan Matson, who writes the best road trip stories). While not necessarily the point or focus, you can see how each stop (and getting out of their hometown) opens their eyes and brings on new revelations.
  • Larry, while the Benign Fungus (snicker), was surprisingly insightful about all of their worries about leaving New York: “Some people would think it’s odd that New Yorkers are this worried about leaving the city. Most people are afraid when they come to New York City” (135). And you know what, as a potential stepfather character, he seemed pretty harmless and, well, yes, benign.
  • Aunt Jackie, oh what a fun character too! How she handled her fiance cheating on her at age 28: “Janet got a partial refund on the reception hall and the caterer, and she returned all the gifts. The dress was not returnable. It had been shredded and sent to Sam in a cardboard box.” (155) and how she started showing the girls gonorrhea pictures, I seriously spit out laughing. Annie’s response: “I’m staying a virgin until I die. Did you see that eyeball?” (160). But, I also love that even as a teen, Eva can read her aunt: “…it occurred to me that Janet was afraid. She was afraid of germs and diseases and sex and heartbreak, of her broken engagement, her old messy love.” (162) and even this: “I often thought Janet would be happy if she could round up all boys and men and corral them into a man zoo, where they’d be caged, allowed a few visitors, and have scraps of meat flung at them every few hours” (228) HA.
  • First of all, cowboy romances sound hilariously awesome. Second of all, real life cowboys and ranch living sounds even more awesome — like when Janet asks about an alarm system on the ranch, “Irma pointed across the hallway railing toward the open living room, at the shotgun hanging above the fireplace” (223) – heehee, wild wild west.
    *The depiction of adult romance thru Eva’s mom and Larry, and Larry’s mom and her series of husbands, and even Will’s parents struggles… they were so refreshingly REAL and sometimes uncomfortably so, but in a way that felt authentic.
  • Amen to Lulu’s response to Annie’s question: “‘Is there any problem that can’t be solved with a book?’ ‘Nope,’ Lulu said, and smiled.” (279)
  • And last but not least, Will. Spoilers! I didn’t love him (you could tell he was kind of flighty, despite mostly being a good guy) but I mostly love him as a device for Eva to grow and feel and realize the differences between real life and her beloved romance novels. He was ultimately a catalyst, setting in motion so, so much more for her.


16 Jun

Portland is one of my absolute favorite cities, and while I think it’s partially because I spend more time there for business than any other city, I think it’s not unfounded.

One of my (and the world’s) favorite bloggers Joanna Goddard is planning a trip there soon and I figured, might as well put my list of things to do online so instead of forwarding an email around (as I’ve been doing for the past couple years), I can share it more easily.

So a few caveats: I don’t have kids, I rarely leave Portland proper, I’m a vegetarian so most of these restaurants have a veggie option, and I’m not a huge nature fan (hiking, etc). That being said, there are still SO many cool things to do, eat, and drink in Portland.


  • Nong’s Khao Man Gai (food cart or full location- note hours/menus vary)
  • Food Carts (PDX is known for their food carts – which are kind of like LA’s food trucks but permanent, and often clustered together to take up entire blocks. Some favorites: Dump Truck, Brunch Box, Small Pharaoh)
  • Screen Door (sit-down, SO GOOD, Cajun/Southern, no reservations)
  • Pine State Biscuits (breakfast/brunch)
  • Andina (tapas, downtown, great sangria)
  • Veritable Quandry (my favorite “nice” restaurants in Downtown –
  • Pok Pok (thai) – not life changing (like Lotus of Siam in Vegas), but really really good
  • Mother’s – homey food, great service, nice location in downtown
  • Luc Luc (vietnamese, downtown)
  • Blossoming Lotus (tons of clean, veggie options)
  • Haven’t been, but heard good things: Tasty n Sons/Tasty n Alder for brunch or any time, and Ken’s Artisan Bakery, a little further outside of the city (good if you’re driving from the Bay)


  • Voodoo donuts is a tourist institution, and a great example of “Keep Portland Weird” – open 24 hours, more touristy, but note that I think the donuts are just okay…
  • Blue Star Donuts more fancy, more pricey, BUT SO GOOD! (Note they sell out most days, so go early!)
  • Salt & Straw ice cream, 3 locations – the best. Flavors I LOVE: Olive Oil, Honey Lavender, Pear Blue Cheese
  • Everywhere good should have Stumptown Coffee
  • Lots of breweries if you like beer – like Deschutes (and there are others outside of downtown if you have a car)
  • Happy Hour is big in PDX like Seattle – both at normal HH times and late night — Portland City Grill has a BEAUTIFUL view at night (Saucebox is popular too)
To Do/See
  • Powells (must do, biggest new/used bookstore in the world) – if you love books/reading/browsing, it’s a great way to kill a few hours between meals
  • Multnomah Falls (~30 minutes east) – you can hike or opt to just take in the view
  • International Rose Garden
  • Japanese Garden
  • Portland movie theaters are really interesting — many have bars/restaurants and are adults-only, plus are cheap (like Bagdad, or Living Room Theaters)
  • Portland Aerial Tram
  • Go shopping! No sales tax in Portland (learning to calculate gratuity without tax as a reference is pretty jarring)

And I know I’m missing things too — so let me know! I already bookmarked these fountains that Joanna posted about this morning… good thing I’m heading back up there next month. Woo!

Isla and the Happily Ever After

5 Oct

I really don’t consider myself a book blogger, but when I find myself overflowing with fuzzy feelings after a great book (and have the necessary time), I suppose I will occasionally blog about books.

ISLA AND THE HAPPILY EVER AFTER was a no-brainer 5-star/2014-favorites type of book. I didn’t expect it to be quite this good, though I knew I’d like it based on the first two in the series, but MAN. SO good! Thoroughly, thoroughly enjoyed it — and seriously hit the spot.

Like I’ve done with the few other book review type posts, I wanted to jot down thoughts and especially the quotes that I loved. But for some reason, I found myself adding more commentary to the quotes than usual. So, if you’ve read it, you’ll hopefully remember and join me in my enthusiasm… and if you haven’t read it yet–I’d hold off. The quotes aren’t organized in a way that’s conducive to introducing someone to the story or characters or anything — they’re more me remembering moments I felt things, and the lines that stuck out.

  • “Ohmygod what the hell did I do last night?????????” (12) — Chapter One felt a little interesting, and Chapter Two simultaneously cracked me up and gave more clarity on how to understand what I’d just read (Stephanie Perkins, I see what you did there…).
  • Note that I was having too much fun to stop and think about grabbing post-its to flag all the wonderful words and phrases I loved for the first hundred pages… which clearly means I’m going to need to read it again.
  • And I also clearly need to re-read ANNA AND THE FRENCH KISS because I had NO idea that St. Clair was taller than her! Did we know this from ANNA??? From ISLA – Josh talking to Isla: “’You know my friend St. Clair?’ he says after a few minutes. ‘He’s only a few inches taller than you, and his girlfriend, Anna? She’s taller than he is.’” (101) As a taller girl (I’m 5’10” and sometimes 5’11”…), I do lament that there are very few stories of taller girl + shorter guy. I think this happens less frequently than almost any other type of couple… like, with age discrepancies, or ethnic/racial differences, or whatever. HEIGHT!
  • Kurt and Josh’s first happy interaction: “Josh clutches his chest in agony as Kurt explodes into loud belly laughter. My heart might burst from happiness.” (107) I love that her two favorite-est people getting along is what brings her true happiness, especially in light of understanding how two of her previous friendships/relationships ultimately ended because of her friendship with Kurt.
  • Isla and Josh, on their first “date” in Paris:
    “’You know what I like about you?’ I ask, after a few minutes.
    ‘My dynamite moves on the dance floor.’” (131)

    SO unexpected, I think I snorted out loud. I love my heroes witty. And I didn’t even know Josh was witty! And maybe he wasn’t — maybe him being around Isla both makes him wordvomit or them being together brings out new parts of his personality we otherwise wouldn’t have been introduced to.

    Josh reminded me a bit of Levi, from FANGIRL, with his sense of humor and sarcasm, though definitely not as bubbly and positive. If anything, they’re opposites in the way they interact with the world—but I see similarities in how they interact with their significant girl-others. How I remember Levi is this interesting blend of St. Clair’s charisma and Josh’s thoughtfulness.

    Like later, later on in the book, when St. Clair and the gang join the party (which, to be honest, did not feel like a party at the time I read it because I was so deep in Isla’s heartbroken state – but let’s be real, it was a party!) the way he carries himself is so fun, and hilarious. “St. Clair clears his throat. ‘My fiancé and I are headed out for a celebratory dessert. I’d ask you all to join us, but I don’t want you there.’” (315) Charming! Effortlessly oozing charisma, and charming. Lucky Anna.

  • I would pay good money to see the mural Josh painted – and I love, love, love his reaction to her reaction: “’Thank you,’ he says. ‘That was the best reaction that anyone has ever given me. For anything.’” (139)
  • Can someone please create and coordinate a trip to Paris, and then Barcelona? One where we visit the same sites, and maybe mix in a little JUST ONE DAY/JUST ONE YEAR? I’d pay to see that too. Why not combine it with a recreation of Josh’s mural? At THE Treehouse? PLEASE. and Thank You.
  • In Barcelona: “I can’t believe that adults get to do this every day. And I don’t even mean sex, though it’s wonderful, but things like this. Brushing our teeth at the same sink. Do adults realize how lucky they are? Or do they forget that these small moments are actually small miracles? I don’t want to ever forget.” (178)
  • Josh: “’St. Clair can persuade anyone to do anything. He’s like, drowning in charisma. It’s so unfair to the rest of us.’
    ‘Eh,’ I say. ‘He’s okay.’
    Josh pauses. And then I hear a smile in his voice. ‘This must be how you felt when I told you that you’re hotter than your sisters.’” (178)
    WHAT A LOVELY MOMENT. Stephanie Perkins! How do you come up with these things?! (Duh, you’re a writer, and an awesome one at that. These things obviously come to you in your sleep.)
  • And I’m pretty sure editors do not choose font sizes, margin width, and paper in order to make sure certain words or phrases appear at the top (or bottom) of any given page, but CAN WE TALK ABOUT HOW the “Uh, no. Not at the moment.” (206) Is at the very. Bottom. Of. The. Page?! Convenient, right?! It could only have been made more convenient if it was on the bottom of the right page, and you had to turn the page to read whatever came next.

    My jaw literally dropped, and stayed dropped for quite a bit of time. I knew there had to be a logical explanation, but I was infuriated on Isla’s behalf, and am glad she was equally infuriated with Josh.

    For context – Josh is being interviewed and is asked, “Do you have a girlfriend?” and then responds like so:
    “He pauses before giving another modest laugh. ‘Uh, no. Not at the moment.’ (206)

  • Reading about Isla reading and experiencing Josh’s graphic novel… I feel like I experienced it with her. “It took guts to draw these things. It’s a different kind of excruciating to read about them.” (218) and then, of course, Rashmi. “She’s pretty and smart and sarcastic. And I hate her.” (218).
  • I kind of love the portrayals of the adults in this story. While of course Josh’s parents have their faults (they are human, after all, who are dealing with very high-pressured lives), the adults are quite reasonable, and I love that. Take, for instance, the interaction between the head of school and Josh:

    “’For a certain kind of person, high school will always be brutal,’ the head says. ‘The best advice that I can give you is to figure out what comes next, and work toward that.’” (221) WHAT GREAT ADVICE!

    The banter between Isla and her parents is also sweet – like when Isla’s mom is comforting her before the big gala: “’His father will love you. His mother will learn to love you. You’re intelligent, charming, and kind.’ ‘Of course you think that.’ ‘I would never describe your younger sister as charming.’ That gets me to crack a smile.” (240)

    And even the very brief encounter we have with Kurt’s parents, I love. “Kurt’s parents refuse to let me call them Mr. and Mrs. Bacon, because they refuse to believe that they’re old.” (267) I kind of want to borrow this philosophy when we have children. Please. It’s a genius idea.

    And then Scott (Kurt’s dad): “’Did he hurt you?’ Scott undergoes a Hulk-like transformation, which looks peculiar on his strung-out ex-rocker body. ‘Yes!’ Scott’s body completes the Hulk transformation. ‘No.’ I sob hysterically. ‘Emotionally.’” (268)

  • During their separation: “How did my parents live before texting? Before the internet? I’m used to knowing things and all of this unknowing is driving me mad.” (235) — Taking away their face-to-face and even digital interaction is such a powerful device because the readers of this book (a large chunk of them, any way—myself included!) have never had to carry on a relationship without at least one or the other. The angst of writing letters or waiting weeks and weeks to catch a glimpse or exchange a few lines—that’s the stuff of the classic romance novels we’ve read and swoon over—and now, Stephanie Perkins makes it relevant to us, with Isla.
  • And lastly, can I just say, THANK GOODNESS someone decided to give these books new and improved covers. The title treatment, the colors, the fonts, and that beautiful rose emblem/logo/motif — perfection. Even before I understood the significance of the roses, I thought they were gorgeous — and obviously appreciate them even more now. Great book marketing makes me so happy — and now I want to buy all three books to have them make my bookshelves that much more beautiful.

Harriet the Spy

4 Oct


One of the few book blogs I follow, The Midnight Garden, chooses one classic Middle Grade/Young Adult book a month to read and then discuss. I’ve read a few lovely books with them so far this year: THE LUCKIEST GIRL (by Beverly Cleary) and A TREE GROWS IN BROOKLYN (by Betty Smith), but September’s book (HARRIET THE SPY) seriously takes the cake.

HARRIET THE SPY is a book I could have sworn I’d read when I was younger, but upon re-reading, realized I didn’t remember *anything* in it–so maybe I never actually read it. Regardless, I was totally charmed by the second page, and proceeded to sticky-note every other page for about 100 pages or so because it was just that good.

The quote on page 2 that I loved:

Harriet is a CHARACTER. She’s precocious, clearly intelligent, a little socially awkward, and brutally honest, both with herself (in her spy notebook — in all caps) and others. There’s a lot of discussion about how she’s not a “nice” girl but let’s be real–girls aren’t nice! Or at least, most kids aren’t when they’re not pretending to say or do the right thing.

This isn’t a recap by any means, but a place for me to drop all my favorite quotes… and to ruminate on the parts that stood out to me. Like, how Harriet was so, so attached to Ole Golly, her nurse (aka nanny), and how Ole Golly knew her better than her parents did, always saying (or not saying) the right thing to make Harriet feel heard, loved, or comforted. I love the relationship as a reader, but as a (Lord willing) one-day parent, it makes me all the more uneasy with the idea of having full-time childcare… I want to be the one who knows my kid best, who knows what to say to get them to take dancing lessons, who can read their moods, and who can take away their flashlight when they try to read under the covers. I get that in some families it’s not an option (because both parents need to work) but in the case of Harriet’s family (and many others)–it’s not necessary! <end soapbox>

Without further adieu–some of my favorite quotes. Which, ironically enough, have very little overlap with the most popular quotes on Goodreads.

  • “Then Harriet did what she always did when she was supposed to be asleep. She got out her flashlight, put the book she was currently reading under the covers, and read happily until Ole Golly came in and took the flashlight away as she did every night.” (25) – I wonder if I had read this as a kid… and then proceeded to do it every night!
  • Harriet to the cook: “Ole Golly says find out everything you can cause life is hard enough even if you know a lot” (37)
  • Harriet to the cook: “I do not go out to PLAY, I go out to WORK!” (39) – I love how seriously she takes herself!
  • Sport to Harriet, about his dad: “Writers don’t care what they eat. They just care what you think of them” (49)
  • “’I hate money,’ Harriet said.
    ‘Well, you’d jolly well like it if you didn’t have any,’ Sport said arrogantly. Harriet considered this. It was true. She’d never had to think about it.” (51)
  • Harriet and Ole Golly: “’What’s a high-pressure job?’ ‘It means he’s not allowed to do exactly what he wants with the job, and what he is allowed to do he isn’t given enough time to do it in.’” (62) – SUCH a good, timeless, simple explanation of this. Crazy how the idea of a high-pressure job applied then, and applies now.
  • Harriet’s parents: “’Boy, that Miss Golly is magic, sheer magic. I wonder where we’d be without her?’” (88)
  • Ole Golly to Harriet: “Tears won’t bring me back. Remember that. Tears never bring anything back. Life is a struggle and a good spy gets in there and fights. Remember that. No nonsense.” (132)
  • “The customers stood around like frozen food.” (160) – For some reason, I liked this metaphor/use of imagery a lot.
  • Harriet and her mother: “’What do you do?’ ‘A lot of unseen, unappreciated things’” (233)  – The plight of the SAHM

If you read it, let me know! Would love to chat about it more.

Unintentional Blog Break & Visiting the 50 States

10 Sep

While it wasn’t intentional, I ended up taking a bit of a blogging break, or a hiatus, if you prefer fancier diction. 

(Caveat: Funny timing given powerhouse home/lifestyle bloggers Young House Love just announced they’re taking a much-needed break from blogging too)

Blogging started to become more of a chore and responsibility (to myself, not to all 3 of my readers) and I kept adding to the “to blog” list without actually blogging… and we all know what happens when a To Do list gets longer and longer… it becomes even less motivating to get anything done.

So that being said, a random blog comment (thanks Lily!) on an old post brought back fond memories of blogging (distance makes the heart grow fonder and all that) so here I am.

That being said, I’m not really sure what I’m going to post about.

  • I don’t know if I’ll ever restart my “What I’m Reading” posts because a) I don’t always want to say something about the books I’ve read b) I really don’t think I’m a good writer, much less book reviewer and c) I meticulously log and rate the books I read on Goodreads. That being said, I haven’t stopped taking pictures of the books I’ve read, so there’s that.
  • I also don’t know if I’ll want to pick up my Voice recaps, especially since I haven’t been able to really enjoy the show in a season or two.
  • And… I really did like doing my monthly personal updates, but those were some of the posts that took the most energy (makes sense, right? More in = more out) so we’ll see.

We just got back from a vacation, so I figured I could write a tiny bit about our travels. We’re trying to visit all 50 states together (so states we visited separately before we got married don’t count) and it’s been super fun seeing new things, driving through totally different parts of the country, and visiting friends who’ve moved all over the place. If you ever need recommendations for mini-trips to states/cities we’ve been to, feel free to shoot me a note!

  • Labor Day trip: Charleston (SC) -> Charlotte (NC) -> Atlanta (GA)
  • And just to fun, other states we’ve visited/trips we’ve done:
    • One state visits: Portland (OR), Seattle (WA), Salt Lake City (UT), Denver (CO)
    • Las Vegas (NV) -> Sedona -> Phoenix (AZ)
    • Ann Arbor (MI) -> Indiana -> Chicago (IL) -> Madison (WI) -> Rochester (MN)
    • Louisville (KY) -> St Louis (MO) -> Kansas City (KS) -> Tulsa (OK) -> Little Rock (AR)
    • New Orleans (LA) -> Houston -> Austin -> Dallas (TX)
  • So including our home state of California, we’ve visited 22 states so far.
  • States left: New Mexico, Alaska, Hawaii, Florida, Tennessee, Alabama, Mississippi, the “North” (Idaho, Montana, the Dakotas, Nebraska, Iowa), and all of the Northeast. Quite a bit!

We have a couple other small trips planned for the rest of 2014, but all to states we’ve been to before, so 22/50 might be where we end 2014 on. Not bad…and there’s always next year!

Stitch Fix #4 and #5 {catch-up}

7 Jan

I still haven’t had that stellar Stitch Fix experience I’ve been dreaming about–the one where you open the box, fall in love, and buy everything. Of course, I still love the concept, the branding, and the customer service… but… maybe because my expectations were so high, there was only room to fall.

Regardless, I’ve been given a few excuses to order new fixes (credit in my POPSUGAR Must Have box and through referrals) so ordered a couple… and ended up with a few new pieces that I liked (that came at the right price point).

almost bought my entire fourth fix, because I liked all the tops and they all fit decently well… but they sent me a pair of earrings and I don’t have pierced ears! I’m guessing that’s a bit of an oversight but that’s a bit of  QA blip, no?


COLOURWORKS Rowson Mesh Detail Striped Sweater – I really liked this top, but it was pricier than I would have liked ($60…?) so it was a no.


OXMO Janet Cotton Tab Sleeve Top – I liked this top and was about to keep it because I don’t have a white casual blouse like it, but couldn’t get over all the buttons on the front… 2 buttons too many?


EVERLY Adina Short Sleeve Zig Zag Blouse – Strangely enough, I kept this top… but didn’t LOVE it. If they were all the same price, I probably would have kept the Colourworks one. But, for the price ($38) and the nice side buttons, I thought it’d be a little bit of an adventurous addition to my closet, and indeed it has been.


ALYTHEA Blue Blazer – I don’t remember the exact name or price, but I really liked this blazer for a lot of reasons — fit, versatility, color… yay!

Then, I took a little bit of a break until a fall shipment in November, which was a pretty big bust. I’m not sure if it’s because they were busy or if it was the change in seasons or something in my profile that sent mixed signals, but I really didn’t like the three tops they sent.


PHOEBE Dot & Stripe Sweater DressMYSTREE Donallan Striped Button-Up Cardigan – While I liked the texture/weight of both pieces, I didn’t like the overall styles. The dress was a nice length/size, but I didn’t like where the polka dots were — unflattering. And I didn’t like the color-blocked collar on the cardigan or the pockets… I probably would have liked both if they didn’t have the extra color blocking element.


UNDER SKIES Clemente Diamond Knit Striped Sweater – Soft, but super unflattering. No pictures for evidence, ha.

41HAWTHORN Colored Faceted Circles Strand Necklace – I actually thought this necklace was beautiful, but I rarely wear orange shades (Asian = yellow-y skin and not as complimentary with the orange) so I passed.


41HAWTHORN Hayden Dot & Stripe Knit Infinity Scarf – I have a lot of scarves (it’s kind of a problem), and I don’t like my $20 styling fee going to waste, and I liked the red/white color scheme, so bingo!

Sooooo… as you can see, a bit of a mixed bag. Or I guess a mixed box, in this case. I still have a lot of love for the brand but am not entirely sure what it is that’s keeping me from my Stitch Fix happily ever after. Perhaps my budget? Or am I just super picky? Could be!

Regardless, I’m still having fun with it and adding little things to my wardrobe, so would encourage you to try it too–if you’re curious!

What I’m Reading

26 Sep

AND WITH THIS POST, I am totally up-to-date on what I’ve been reading the past few months! Easier said than done.


  • The Fifth Wave (Amazon) (Rick Yancey) – Sci-fi… skimmed it. From the small sampling of books I’ve read or tried to read, I think I’m less likely to enjoy a book if it’s written by a male author. Just an observation worth sharing.
  • Between the Devil and the Deep Blue Sea (Amazon) (April Genevieve Tucholke) – You know, the story itself was okay. The main character frustrated me a little by her naivete but I still enjoyed it… but… the ending? DRIVES ME NUTS. I hate when I find out that it’s “Book #1” in a series when I was expecting a resolution. Ugh. Book #1s should have a resolution!
  • The Spectacular Now (Amazon) (Tim Tharp) – Underwhelmed. I really wanted to see the movie, and now I’m still curious, but less so. Didn’t love the narrative voice (male author, again!) and didn’t love the ending, but can see how it’d make a good movie.
  • Fingerprints of You (Amazon) (Kristen-Paige Madonia) – Simple, sweet, mother-daughter tale… finding-yourself, etc. Liked, didn’t love.
  • Warm Bodies (Amazon) (Isaac Marion) – Better than I hoped, but not great. Just watched the movie trailer and like how they applied the humor of the novel. Zombie love story, but not exactly…
  • Reconstructing Amelia (Amazon) (Kimberly McCreight) – Another adult novel I picked up because of all the sales and press. I actually liked this BETTER than GONE GIRL which I know everyone loved and was a huge blockbuster (does that word apply to books too?). The ending and the final twist weren’t entire surprises (I feel like it’s been done before, to an extent), but I did like all the little twists and turns along the way. And oof, the heart of her mother…
  • Soon I Will Be Invincible (Amazon) (Austin Grossman) – Started, because it was well-regarded in the world of fantasy/sci-fi, but couldn’t finish it. Never got into comic books, so shouldn’t have been surprised that I didn’t love a book that was essentially a spin-off of the comic world.


  • Something Strange and Deadly (Amazon) / A Darkness Strange and Lovely (Amazon) (Susan Dennard) – Yet ANOTHER trilogy with a female heroine. Should that be a drama? YA paranormal trilogy with strong female heroine and multiple love interests? This one is set in earlier America, with a twist of zombies and magic (and some science), but still entertaining. I guess the formula works!
  • A Really Awesome Mess (Amazon) (Trish Cook) – REALLY liked this. Takes place in an … what do you call it… alternative care facility? Kind of like rehab for teenagers, who come together with a motley of issues. The two main characters struggle with anger/feeling loved (boy) and eating disorders/feeling loved (girl). Unexpectedly funny with a lot of sass, big thumbs up.
  • The Name of the Wind (Amazon) / The Wise Man’s Fear (Amazon) (Patrick Rothfuss) – And the grand finale… Patrick Rothfuss. Oh, Patrick Rothfuss. I won’t say that these are MORE fun than the Game of Thrones series because I know that’d raise havoc… but I will say that they are of the same caliber. Set in similar worlds, but I like that these focus on ONE character (Kvothe) and it is a coming-of-age story, just that of an extraordinarily clever, smart, observant, resourceful, powerful, and talented … arcanist? Not sure what we should call him. SO SO SO SO SO good. Gave both 5 stars, which I don’t very often on Goodreads… but high fantasy seriously at it’s best. Cannot wait for the third book, though I’ll probably have to wait ages given it’s apparently not done being written yet!